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Friday, September 25, 2009 | 2:20 AM | 0 Atasinchi
Hi there..just a story after Hari Raya.. a lot of things happenned this yr.. some is predictable & some is unpredictable. The most I want 2 mention here is the unpredictable happenned during this year.. muahaha.. Actually not really much.. Just Im quite suprise when I realize that this year I get to celebrate with my sibling (without their wife or husbnd after they get married) together even my brother was x with us in the 1st day raya. Yes, I understand his situation. But what had happenned today is the most important compare to celebrating together on the first day hari raya. This is coz, today I feel that I get my real siblings back even i in no mood due to many reasons. Actually I start feel it 2/3 days b4, but only with my sister.. but today, I feel it with my bro too.. I thought that I lost them totally after they get married for 7/8 years..Huhu..This day make it complete.. even the this happenned just in 5 minutes..But irs ok.. it make me satisfy forever...

My mind always ask why people change after they get married?? (+ve or -ve way -either one-) is it because of LOVE, RESPONSIBILITY, or anything?? If this is because of LOVE, I think this is not fair..Yes your should love that "person" but how about the other person that u have gv ur love b4??? Or RESPONSIBILITY?? How about their responsibility to their family too?? I think this is not fair..May be im not understand because Im not getting married yet.. But when this question appear in my mind, I always feel scare to get married. Even I just one of their sibling.. I can feel it...so, how about their parent?? Dont u think they will feel more than me?? U just pretend to be other person infront of your parent because of your LOVE. U totally change infront of your parent because of your LOVE. But what u will do if u stuck in problem?? U will run to your parent and asking for their help, doesnt care how old are u.

I always hope that if Im getting married one day, I will ensure that I will x being a hiprocrit person. Change totally because of my LOVE (if we are married because of love and we choose each other). They should understand each other. This is the purpose u are getting married because of your choice. Maybe the person who read this blog will agree or disagree with me.. but this is my OPPINION after I made my observation for more than 10 years and keep thinking why and how to solve it. But I know.. its hard for other person to understand my situation.. I know that they will thought that Im not affair n how about their part??? But hv u been on my feed for 10 years?? I believe u will do the same way if u r me, or u are an ignorance and selffish, u will becaome to other category. Hv u think my parents feeling??? They never show to their child but deep in their heart, I know how they feel. I think Im big enought to think all this..Maybe they didnt realize their attitude..but I believe that one day when their children make the same action, they will feel it. Maybe they will feel more than my parent feel it now (actuallly I always think in my MOTHER side..hehe).

Nothing can change me except my self.. Actually I cant really remember how my real sibling's act were..(interm of their attitude, their action when happly or sad or bla bla bla)...This is because the last time we were together when im in standard 5 or 6. After that, they choose to have their own way. I cant remember how fun we are together b4 this too, what we have done together too.. the only thing I can feel is I lost them totally, I feel that Im single daugther / child in family. But in my mother sight, hv u think she will feel more than me but she pretend x???t.. I always think that, if I get childre with this attitude, what should I do?? But actually, what ever happend usually hv its own reason.. Due to our distance of age are very very far, I can see all this happend.. and I hope that I can avoid it...

p/s: I belief that all happend because of some reason (whatever happen -interm of +ve or -ve). Some people take an action because of reason too..If they do without reason, I think they are not a human being.
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